tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post6855465544083923805..comments2023-10-31T05:42:42.996-07:00Comments on Ready and Fading: I Can't Breathe and Lots of Random Reflection Upon My Birthday Readyandfadinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07701847911003124862noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-74418578458497156122013-06-01T00:54:58.350-07:002013-06-01T00:54:58.350-07:00Most big life transitions I made sure my therapist...Most big life transitions I made sure my therapist was on hand, even when I didn't really think I needed it. It was always great to have someone neutral to talk to who had no other agenda then to help me figure things out. Fabulously Alwayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18415426705611682839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-78533120076254302292013-05-31T19:09:57.638-07:002013-05-31T19:09:57.638-07:00Twins we are....omg, another commonality....
Than...Twins we are....omg, another commonality....<br /><br />Thank you. My truth does matter. I never thought of it this way....wow. <br /><br />I love this comment. I just had a huge realization with your words....you are correct, not every day will be a good day. IT IS SO SIMPLE AND TRUE.<br /><br />I am going to try to not hide. I am going to try. <br /><br />I really appreciate this wonderful advice and insight.<br /><br />I am so lucky to have readers like you! Readyandfadinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07701847911003124862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-60722801721969828482013-05-31T19:06:10.549-07:002013-05-31T19:06:10.549-07:00Right in the sore spot! You are SO right. I call...Right in the sore spot! You are SO right. I called my therapist yesterday and I am going to see him this upcoming week. I am going through tons of transitions and it is making me feel super out of control. I know going to talk about it will make me feel tons better. Ice cream is out of the house....I removed it this morning cause it is not the breakfast of champions as much as I think it is.....<br /><br />I think you are right....I need to forgive myself. I need to know that it was only my own fear of confrontation that got me into these bad positions. I need to protect myself for all that I am...AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR WONDERFUL COMMENT! Always appreciated!!! Readyandfadinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07701847911003124862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-7896512404538776392013-05-31T15:51:31.418-07:002013-05-31T15:51:31.418-07:00Thank you so much for your comment!!! I did belie...Thank you so much for your comment!!! I did believe her. I did. And now I feel better that I shared. I appreciate your kindness and support. I get so hurt, too. I am too sensitive for my own good....I am. I do feel like karma is a bitch and bad people eventually get theirs, too. I know this. I believe that I have had some great luck this year because overall I am a good person. Sometimes my kindness is misunderstood. "I Don't Give a Fuck is Right!" I do look cray....I need to keep my cool and act like I am actually in control.....peasants is amazing btw...I will fake it until I make it! And tomorrow after I work a bit....I am going to watch Drag Race while I paint my nails!!! THANK YOU! Readyandfadinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07701847911003124862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-26691172251000385202013-05-31T07:11:03.980-07:002013-05-31T07:11:03.980-07:00Oh my fellow Gemini sister! - it all makes so much...Oh my fellow Gemini sister! - it all makes so much sense now!!<br /><br />Slow down, I'm begging you!<br /><br />Here's the thing - your truth matters. You are so much better than how Awful treated you - it just took you a while to realize it.You know you are so much better than what crazy client said. And who are they to pass judgement on your personal life. That is out of bounds and should cancel everything they say out.<br /><br />You are getting the prize. You are getting Crush and a cherished life together. By moving, you can take the positive pieces of your past and make an entire new life. You will get there.<br /><br />With regard to Crush - it's like what my very first and most amazing psyciatrist told me years ago. Not every day is going to be a good day - in life, work and relationships. Some days we have to work harder at things than others. I often reflect on that because it's so simple and so true.<br /><br />Don't hide. Those others should be embarrassed for their behaviors and actions. You can only control what YOU can do. Be proud, continue to be ethical, be strong. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-64101890076814123552013-05-30T22:31:31.638-07:002013-05-30T22:31:31.638-07:00I think that woman hit right in your sore spot. So...I think that woman hit right in your sore spot. Some people have the incredible ability to identify our sore spots and hit where it hurts and that's due to our own view of ourselves, our self esteem, self worth. If you feel like you are in a corner and don't know how to get out, I'd go find a good therapist. If you have given yourself permission to eat ice cream in the morning, remove ice cream from your house and ask yourself if what you are doing today is getting you to where you want to be tomorrow.<br /><br />I wish I had a good answer on how to help. I have often said to friends "Don't give other people so much power over how you feel about yourself, you are the only one who has the power to stop it." <br /><br />Maybe the bottom line is to forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for staying with awful, forgive yourself for fucking up whatever job that woman wanted you to do or for even taking her on as a client, and move on. And face the people you fear. Don't hide from them. You take your power back when you face them.Fabulously Alwayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18415426705611682839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-12003795731855087242013-05-30T10:00:53.422-07:002013-05-30T10:00:53.422-07:00You allow a person like that woman to make you unh...You allow a person like that woman to make you unhappy. I think that you may have believed her when she said those things to you. Which is why you get sick from them. I don't know you personally, but judging from your writing and they comments you've left for me being "on my side" so to speak, you are none of those things. <br /><br />It hurts me when people are mean like that to others. I think "who raised you to be like that, to think saying things like that is okay?!" Because its never okay to treat anyone like that. It says more about her character than yours, and I know people will say that, and even when someone tells me that I roll my eyes, but its true. <br /><br />I think that you need a new mantra for your time left in the midwest. Maybe "I Don't Give A Fuck"? Who cares if you run into some crazy girl? You look crazy by swerving and stopping or turning around. The trick is not letting it look like they got under your skin. Staying cool, calm and collective. <br /><br />You are letting the outside influence of raggedy ass peasants dictate your life and actions. Remember that you are better than these lesser's and the best revenge is looking good and feeling fabulous, and if you have to fake it for a few months until your gone, then fake it like you're getting paid! <br /><br />Watch some RuPauls Drag Race for inspiration if need be. You should just read all those bitches for filth!!Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04106092363732337130noreply@blogger.com