tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post2578436591941826389..comments2023-10-31T05:42:42.996-07:00Comments on Ready and Fading: One Last Post About This....I Promise..but, Awful is ENGAGED! Readyandfadinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07701847911003124862noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-80387415894989893882013-08-01T07:27:56.210-07:002013-08-01T07:27:56.210-07:00Thank you so much! LOVE YOUR COMMENTS! Girl........Thank you so much! LOVE YOUR COMMENTS! Girl.....embarrassing to the max! I always want to delete these moment of weakness posts, but I like to reflect on them later (often a few months down the road), as they help me process my life: lessons learned, time being able to heal, the stupid shit I say and do that I need to work on! OY! Readyandfadinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07701847911003124862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-85245715594417885452013-08-01T07:25:23.682-07:002013-08-01T07:25:23.682-07:00Thank you and it was great insight! Thank you and it was great insight! Readyandfadinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07701847911003124862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-73313424655400657322013-07-31T12:03:57.536-07:002013-07-31T12:03:57.536-07:00I second everything Danielle said!I second everything Danielle said!bluemoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17824559705320935052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-46205763957073431412013-07-29T21:03:02.222-07:002013-07-29T21:03:02.222-07:00I bet she complies with him. Whereas you may have...I bet she complies with him. Whereas you may have made him see the truth in himself. I mean, we all want to think that we were rejected for a reason better than a man not thinking we are good enough. Like Mummy Dearest said, its time to take the power back. <br /><br />Do that by seeing (and believing in your heart of hearts) that you rejected his sorry ass, versus the other way around. He wasn't good enough for you and he knew it. He knew that you would see the errors of your ways if he had proposed and you said yes. <br /><br />I know how embarrassing these posts are because I want to write about Nick the Dick sometimes. I don't, or if I do, I save them as drafts, then eventually delete them. They are moments of weakness. We all have them. Its easy to slip back and think "what if" because it requires zero effort to find a new man or relationship. <br /><br />Cherish the present and future, and start forgetting about him. Its hard, but possible. Time and all that jazz. Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04106092363732337130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-87429159792401576112013-07-29T20:29:04.816-07:002013-07-29T20:29:04.816-07:00We care if it is upsetting to you. We care if it is upsetting to you. Mummy Dearesthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02488455200105763530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-78848429503953747412013-07-29T18:44:15.772-07:002013-07-29T18:44:15.772-07:00You are lucky. Two months! I know it is overused,...You are lucky. Two months! I know it is overused, but things really do happen for a reason. I never stop believing that. Readyandfadinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07701847911003124862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-40306556067992954252013-07-29T18:40:10.358-07:002013-07-29T18:40:10.358-07:00She will!!! I was thinking about that earlier.......She will!!! I was thinking about that earlier....I feel bad for everyone! I am grateful and thank you as always for your insight! Readyandfadinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07701847911003124862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-65665381653153380712013-07-29T18:39:27.968-07:002013-07-29T18:39:27.968-07:00I know, I know.....you are SO right!!! Posts like...I know, I know.....you are SO right!!! Posts like these, I don't even want to post...they embarrass me so much, but I feel like I have to for myself. <br /><br />Nobody cares is the darn truth!!! The friend stuff is tricky because the person who told me is the person I met him through. She is a dear friend of mine who I knew years before I ever dated Awful. Her husband is really good friends with Awful, so it is this awkward elephant in the room and over the last 2 years, I haven't been as good as I friend as I could be to her and vice-versa and I know some of this is Awful related. I am hoping when I move and there is some distance between us, we can go back to being better friends, without having to focus on Awful being around. She was invited to his wedding (but told me she won't be attending), so I think she felt like she HAD to tell me. Readyandfadinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07701847911003124862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-57527786928364937432013-07-29T18:36:52.540-07:002013-07-29T18:36:52.540-07:00I understand! I dated a guy for 2 years. After we ...I understand! I dated a guy for 2 years. After we broke up, he got engaged to someone else after dating her for 2 months. Two months! I'm at the point where I can realize how lucky I am not to be with him.Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09669046315971951442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-12110181555007139802013-07-29T17:11:40.423-07:002013-07-29T17:11:40.423-07:00R&F....Good luck to her. She's going to n...R&F....Good luck to her. She's going to need it! Don't look back...look ahead to your great future with your wonderful Crush... You dodged a bullet, girlfried. Be grateful!Preppy Empty Nesterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13446028963455322844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-15657735849341177992013-07-29T16:57:49.971-07:002013-07-29T16:57:49.971-07:00Take this in the most loving way possible - I WANT...Take this in the most loving way possible - I WANT TO SHAKE YOU!<br /><br />First, ask yourself if YOU wanted to marry him. Take the power back. (And you did just that when you moved out, AHEM!)<br /><br />Second, you are WINNING, even though Hubs tells me these kinds of things aren't games. You GOT Crush, who loves you for YOU, no pretense.<br /><br />Finally, WHO CARES? (I mean I do, I'm reading your blog and your "friend") Anyone that is still providing you with useless information on Crush does not have your best interest at heart unless it's in a sloppy gossipy way (which I'm not opposed to!). And look at his track record - your love will last, him...well, work on yours!!<br /><br />xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-12010034558729853172013-07-29T13:21:56.577-07:002013-07-29T13:21:56.577-07:00VERY WELL SAID!!!!! It only takes the one. VERY WELL SAID!!!!! It only takes the one. Readyandfadinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07701847911003124862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8661251715457709926.post-3952462062433391582013-07-29T11:48:14.745-07:002013-07-29T11:48:14.745-07:00Hey, this is how I look at it, not everyone is goi...Hey, this is how I look at it, not everyone is going to want to marry you. Not everyone wants to marry Giselle (ahem Leo). It's okay. It just takes the one ;) Jennifer @ Belclaire House https://www.blogger.com/profile/09958706492584850321noreply@blogger.com